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Relationships are about EQUAL Partnership not leadership of weak women by weak men

by Andy on February 12, 2010


Relationships are about equal partnership between a man and woman in the journey of life. People who want to give their relationships the best chance of success in the 21st century will avoid characterising their relationship as a leadership hierarchy in which man is "leader" and woman ss "led". Those who are happy constructing their relationships on those terms are welcome to do so but they should not attempt to impose their religion based value systems (which are irrelevent in a secualr society) on the rest of us. We disagree, simple. Some of us aspire to a much higher aim than leading a woman and we believe that those whose only goal is to lead a woman lack the kind of ambition that would qualify them to lead anything. *Warning* Those women who desire such men only have themselves to blame. We don't wanna hear no, "niggaz aint shit" if your relationship break down – as is highly likely in a relationship with rigidly defined roles along the lines of some corporate management hierarchy rather than as a simple coming together of a man and woman who just want to be with each other.

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1 2pacndr February 12, 2010 at 4:01 pm

Lol… female leaders in relationships? I believe this goes against the laws of attraction. Women are typically attracted to assertive alpha-male types. Not to say a bossy woman can’t find a weak man but I think ultimately she would be unhappy with him.

2 brian8793 February 12, 2010 at 4:16 pm

Divorce? They’re not going to get divorced. They love each other. Thats a defeatist attitude.

3 Thugt1cian February 12, 2010 at 5:11 pm

@Brian 8793

Well that’s fine if that’s what works for them, but earner/nuturer “roles” should not and WILL not be dictated by gender in a modern, high tec, secular society. Furthermore, those men who want their women to stay at home had better be wealthy enough to fund the marriage and the divorce. An EX wife, EX house, four EX children and a new place where you live alone will cost much than a SAH wife and kids.

4 brian8793 February 12, 2010 at 5:42 pm

There’s nothing wrong with a women who wants to be a house hom, and have children while their husband works for the family.

My brother is a corporate lawyer who usually works about 10-12 hours a day, and I would argue that his wife, who has a bachelors degree from B.Y.U., works harder than him taking care of their 4 beautiful children:)

5 MAINTHOUGHT21 February 12, 2010 at 5:51 pm

I love this vid great job.

6 brianbmf February 12, 2010 at 6:16 pm

You dont get what being the head of house and being submissive means.You cant have equal partnership because men and women are not equal and we are different.Being the head is not more important than being submissive and nurturer.Both roles are equally important but different and are needed.Men are supposed to be leaders of their home and people usually naturally fall into it because its natural,one is not more important than the other,its just different.

7 Ebonytheartist February 12, 2010 at 6:33 pm

Really great video here.

8 WONDAWOMAN February 12, 2010 at 7:31 pm

Ya know, I hear that from my male friends, but I have not come across women who “Refuse to cook or clean”… okay, okay, I have a friend who has such a wife.. but SHE AIN’T NO FRIEND OF MINE- lol.. but indeed, she still expects to live the high life while not working & not doing much to make things easier for him while HE goes to work everyday. pffft! There are some of us who believe in equal contribution & participation & building according to strengths. It works best that way.

9 platniumalstar06 February 12, 2010 at 8:23 pm

ooo u kno wat i never thot of it like that tician to be honest i really believed it was best for a man t lead and a woman t follow. but ive been enlightened this really makes sense. KUUNAMI ur on t something homie lol

10 ColonelChoppa February 12, 2010 at 8:55 pm

I have not listened to this video yet but by the title I can say: I whole-heartedly agree, but good luck finding a woman who believes that. Yes they say that they want an equal relationship but the majority of women aren’t comfortable in this role. But I’ll listen to the video to understand what you’re saying.

11 laughingstalk February 12, 2010 at 8:59 pm

Heterosexual men and women are attracted to what makes us different from each other, but different doesn’t mean superior or inferior. Unlike animals, as human beings, we should strive not to wrap up all of our sense of worth in our sex appeal, or lack thereof. Several historical figures who have contributed to humankind, never married or had children.

Marriage is a social construct. Nowadays, who women are attracted to, and who they marry, can be two completely different types of men.

12 Thugt1cian February 12, 2010 at 9:07 pm

2.@beewardrobe

Furthermore most men are not powerful, most of us have regular jobs, not even careers. If men believe that the only thing we have to offer women is what we earn then we are very bad negotiators – which probablly explains why most of us are not powerful.

13 shammy1002 February 12, 2010 at 9:42 pm

….and couple this to divorce/custody/misandrist laws that are stacked in the favor of women.

14 Thugt1cian February 12, 2010 at 10:05 pm

1.@beewardrobe

Nope, being sexually attracted to a man is entirely different to being attracted to power or money. We all like money, and we are all thrilled in the presence of power. Remember the film Casino, the Sharon Stone character loved the sleazy lowlife loser, played James Woods – despite being maried to the powerful, dangerous and exotic Casino racketteer (R Dinero). This is not Hollywood fiction, there are plenty of penniless men average looking who attract the choicest women.

15 shammy1002 February 12, 2010 at 10:23 pm

The MRA movement ain’t about roses and bubbles chum!

16 brendan03us February 12, 2010 at 10:54 pm

Great video, great direction, completely agree. We need to move forward, time’s arrow points in only one direction. This is the way forward, not traditionalism.

17 BlackPoisonxX February 12, 2010 at 11:22 pm

That’s a fair point actually….

18 Rmkb1 February 12, 2010 at 11:33 pm

I like the direction you’re going in, Thugtician. This vid was really good!

19 kuunami February 12, 2010 at 11:55 pm

I agree about not falling into the societal expectation of gender roles. The problem is that women of my generation(i’m 29) refuse to do ANYTHING that was previously considered a female role i.e Cooking, cleaning etc. They now expect the man to do everything and still be the provider as well. A close male family member of mine is going through this with his wife and a female sibling of mine is now like this. They don’t want 50/50 they want the men to do EVERYTHING.

20 Zac6230 February 13, 2010 at 12:00 am

every thugtician video is negative, but its all brilliant inisght …I have a love hate thing with his vdeos

21 beewardrobe February 13, 2010 at 12:47 am

Equality sounds good in theory but laws of biology and nature show women are only sexually attracted to men whom they perceive as superior. Any sense of male equality or inferiority and the woman loses any real, genuine interest.

22 TRUTHSE7EN February 13, 2010 at 1:09 am

my parents set the perfect example for me they both worked they both took care of the hous and kids and they discussed the decisions needed to be made without competition. NOW all there is ..is mangina baby boys wanting submit to a fake ass diva

23 1titans February 13, 2010 at 2:05 am

You said some things on here that is just to true.

But I think what most of these guys are saying to the women, is make better choices before you become a baby mamma, But its the baby mammas who get angry at that and come back with crazy comments.

24 Popadibs February 13, 2010 at 2:06 am

These videos are classics.

25 silverdragon1979 February 13, 2010 at 3:05 am

A lot of people that are on our side tend to agree with “leadership and submission” roles in relationships. I disagree with it, but out of respect I don’t comment on it because it does work for some people. It just annoys me how they mention that is the only way that a relationship or a family will work. So, does that mean that male followers and female leaders are not allowed to experience a healthy relationship? I think not. Forget roles and focus on chemistry and attraction.

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