www.lovein30days.com Shay Your Date Diva reveals how long should a woman wait before having sex and why “knowing” him for a year is not enough reason to give it up on the first Date!
Can I Have Sex With Him Now? How Long Should I Wait To Have Sex?
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Great video.
lol
yeah, be extremely carefull when and for who you spread your legs.
cause your body is your only “coin” in life. make sure the trade off is the best you can get, sell your “hide” for a high price.
good lak.
Thanks young!
@ 2:18 …what test??
Good choice (coming from a guy)
im having the same problem, i have been talking to this guy for like a week and he says that its ok to give it up that he wont think anything of it but im not, im going to make his ass wait and if he isnt interested than im out..I’ve made that mistake in the past but I’m not going to do it again..He better put work into getting to know me and invite me somewhere other than his house! lol thanks for the video now I know the best course of actions! KEEP HIM WAITING!
im puting the 5’s on lol
The question is how much do you know yourself and value yourself ? Rather his intentions are good or not he will still be around, and if he leaves he will come back becuase he didn’t conquer you. Take a self examination read Proverbs 7 and then read Proverbs 31 and tell me what type of woman you really are
I know that this sounds old fashioned but realize who you are. Do you understand the power of a woman and how persuasive we really are and I’m not talking about the sex. We are the glory of a man do you understand a man lives everyday just to please GOD and women. It is built in him to want to prove to us how masculine he is and what he can do. If one man can’t wait for you he isn’t worthy enough to be in the same room as you, hold a conversation let alone become one with you.
Do we think men can’t wait for sex? I know men that have waited and are glad that they waited for their wives. WIVES not girlfriend or baby mama. First of all ladies lets not forget the purpose for sex it wasn’t created for dating it was designed for marriage. So many people have so much hurt behind premarital sex its not even funny. You can make a man wait 3 months but I’d doubt he will see you as the marrying type in three months because he labeling you on that first day he speaks to you.
DONT TOYS GET OLD?
Yeah, sex…sex, with him.
tell it girl!
Great video and message. But there will always be women who will give up the “cookie” quickly and men who will be more than happy to oblige……….LOL…..
“Payless pussy”…classic! I’m gonna start using that one.
Loose women are the reason men don’t respect us as a whole right now. They see one hoe and tend to box us all in this category. They tend to do and say things to test us and it’s sad that so many women are failing the test. Ladies if you give it away all willie nilly it isn’t special. You are showing that you have payless pussy…..cheap, easy to get and nobody wants but they’l settle for it to get by. Don’t have a payless pussy.
Tell ‘em girl. I have made this mistake more than once. LOL I am so done with the old way that I have done things in the past. I am on a whole new agenda!
You saaiiid it!
I agree.
Ain’t true. I’m for a man getting his whever he can while we are dating. He ain’t getting it for me! But once we’re together, he’d better be monogamous. I ain’t “holding out”. As highly sexed as I am, I’m the one who doesn’t want to hit it and quit it. I’d like to think I’ve really gotten to know all the guys I’ve had, thank you very much!
Oh no you didn’t! LOL
Some women don’t know how to make it about anything but sex. That’s why some fo them are on the rush 2. They don’t think its real till they give it up to the guy. It’s sad. And some men and women “date” for 3 months, but its all sexual tension. Some men are dedicated to the p&ssy, but not to you. They will wait you out, hit that 3 or 4 month mark, hit it, then quit it. I have male friends who brag. It’s a skill. Women, learn how 2 make it about you (and him) & not your p&ssy, PLEASE!
If he really likes you, he will be with you in the end. Men can sleep with any kind of woman but a woman who has standards will always win in the end. If he leaves and never talks to you again then that means he only wanted you for sex and was not even considering any kind of commitment with you in the first place.
Thanks Shay…I weeded out alot of “no goods” and “mr wrongs” by insisting on friendship and courting before sex…btw Im waiting on to present my gift (smile)….God’s rule not mine
i read in essence magazine a lady was friends with a man for 8 years and she did it to him and he gave her hiv and did not tell her until she asked did he have hiv. date him first even if you were friends
because you are entering a different relationship and you might find a different
person once you eneter a different relationship.